Lessons I continue to learn from Ebeneezer Scrooge

I am a big fan of Charles Dickens’ Christmas Carol. Partly due to it’s overall message of redemption, It has become an important part of my Christmas over the years. Published 181 years ago (December 19 1843) it has been in the public domain for longer than I’ve been alive and as such has been reprinted innumerable times, and the subject of countless movies from classic to animated versions including a very famous one by the Muppets with Michael Caine, as well as millions of stage performances.

Many common terms in modern day English originated from the story and whether you’ve read the story or not, you probably know who Bob Cratchit, Scrooge’s nephew, Ghost of Christmas Present, Mrs. Cratchit and Tiny Tim are.

For those of my friends who also love the story, do you remember the scene where this beautiful observation is noted? It’s contextual paragraph is: “It is a fair, even-handed, noble adjustment of things, that while there is infection in disease and sorrow, there is nothing in the world so irresistibly contagious as laughter and good humor.”

The person who exuded such contagious good humor is the one we know only as Scrooge’s nephew, who had stopped by with his traditional invitation to Christmas dinner, to which his uncle just as traditionally threw back in his face. Most of us – having received such a refusal would never issue another invitation – justifying to ourselves that we had done our duty. Not this good man. He believed that Christmas time was a time to be extra “kind, forgiving, charitable and pleasant”, a time to “open shut up hearts … and to think of” others. And he embodied that testimony. I love Scrooge’s nephew. Wouldn’t we all want to have such a one in our families? Wouldn’t we all want to BE that one in our family?

From the indomitable Christmas Spirit of Scrooge’s nephew, to the true nature of Ebeneezer Scrooge himself,

Charles Dickens paints for us a picture of a man almost past being capable of feeling anything akin to ‘good humour’. His world was small, and it revolved completely around himself. From that heavy gravitational pull he had almost lost the ability to lift his eyes to see those around him.

I love descriptive lines like these; they create an image that I can literally ‘see’. Dickens was known for being descriptive and for his ability to have empathy – to understand his characters and to share feelings with them. He lived with his characters. He knew them intimately. They became representative as he addressed societal issues he was passionate about. I’m sure at times the line between reality and the world he was in the midst of creating often became blurred. Such is the skill (and sometimes the burden) of one who uses his God-given talent to raise the cause of humanity, and to inspire us all to better works.

Scrooge’s only contemporary (the only one who came close to understanding him) was his former partner Jacob Marley.

Whether ‘friendship’ was possible between two such immensely selfish, self absorbed human beings is hard to say, but we know they were business partners, and as such – they were well suited to each other. Kindred spirits, in that they looked at life the same way. And so it was that it fell upon Jacob Marley to deliver a message to his protege – a message that may have been his only opportunity to interact with the world of the living, and thereby in some small way influence some good in it.

The setting is Scrooge’s bedroom.

The scene that comes to mind with this quote is a tender one that never ceases to make me weep when I read it. It is the one where Jacob Marley stands before Scrooge with all his chains “made of cash-boxes, keys, padlocks, ledgers, deeds, and heavy purses wrought in steel.” His explanation: “in life my spirit never roved beyond the narrow limits of our money-changing hole” and now from the vantage point of the world of spirits, he added “No rest, no peace. Incessant torture of remorse. . . .
Not to know that any Christian spirit working kindly in its little sphere, whatever it may be, will find its mortal life too short for its vast means of usefulness! Not to know that no space of regret can make amends for one life’s opportunity misused! Yet such was I! Oh! such was I!”

One can literally FEEL it. The pain and agony of Jacob Marley’s “incessant torture of remorse”. What about all those who like him, find themselves in similar conditions? Charles Dickens may have been a flawed man, but he had moments of sheer inspiration when he allowed the spirit of God to flow through his pen. And he did immense good for generations yet to come of those who continue to read his words and allow their message to soak into their hearts. Jacob Marley admitted “of my own free will I wore [this chain]”, and that sitting by Scrooge during some days, watching him forge his own chain was “no light part of my penance”.

To Scrooge’s attempt to pacify him with flattery, he cried aloud and wringing his hands responded “Mankind was my business. The common welfare was my business; charity, mercy, forbearance, and benevolence, were, all, my business. The dealings of my trade were but a drop of water in the comprehensive ocean of my business!’
It held up its chain at arm’s length, as if that were the cause of all its unavailing grief, and flung it heavily upon the ground again.
‘At this time of the rolling year,’ he said, ‘I suffer most. Why did I walk through crowds of fellow-beings with my eyes turned down, and never raise them to that blessed Star which led the Wise Men to a poor abode? Were there no poor homes to which its light would have conducted me?’”

Truly there are many homes to which that light would conduct US in our individual lives. If we learn nothing else from Jacob Marley, it must be to look beyond ourselves and see what we can do for those around us – while we still can.

At leaving through the window Marley joined a mournful dirge – “coherent sounds of lamentation and regret; wailings inexpressibly sorrowful and self accusatory”. Scrooge watched one such ghost cry piteously “at being unable to assist a wretched woman with an infant, whom it saw below, upon a door-step. The misery with them all was, clearly, that they sought to interfere, for good, in human matters, and had lost the power for ever.

Such is the tragedy of regret.

the empowerment of the ‘present’

This quote is perhaps my favourite – because it is empowering. The PRESENT is what matters; it is the time to act. Wallowing in what SHOULD have been, and worrying or even the intentional planning for what COULD be will not change the Present. Doing something NOW is the only thing in our control and the only thing that can influence the course of future events.

The ghost of Christmas Present boldly states “You have never seen the like of ME before!” and truly we haven’t. Neither Ebeneezer or us.

I am reminded of a favourite hymn written by Will L. Thompson . . . .

Have I done any good in the world today? Have I helped anyone in need?
Have I cheered up the sad? and made someone feel glad?
If not, I have failed indeed.
Has anyone’s burden been lighter today Because I was willing to share?
Have the sick and the weary been helped on their way?
When they needed my help was I there?

Then wake up! and do something more – Than dream of your mansion above.
Doing good is a pleasure, a joy beyond measure,
A blessing of duty and love.

There are chances for work all around just now, Opportunities right in our way.
Do not let them pass by, saying, “Sometime I’ll try,” But go and do something today.
’Tis noble of man to work and to give; Love’s labour has merit alone.
Only he who does something helps others to live.
To God each good work will be known.

I heard someone say recently that decorating for Christmas has magic in it. Truly, a strange phenomenon happens when the lights go up, the nativities come out, Christmas music is playing on the radio and the house smells of gingerbread. People are kinder, more thoughtful and even charitable. Strangers lend a hand to strangers. Neighbours share things they don’t think to share at other times. People greet each other and take their leave with a “Merry Christmas” . We become aware of ways we can contribute to someone’s personal celebration. No other time of the year are these acts so concentrated as in the time we are preparing to celebrate Christmas – no matter what that looks like to you. It is one of the great Christmas Miracles!

the greatest miracle is a changed heart

And that is the wonderfulness of the Christmas Carol – that even such a one as Ebeneezer Scrooge, that “tight-fisted hand at the grindstone”, that “squeezing, wrenching, grasping, scraping, clutching, covetous, old sinner” himself – could change. He could change and he did change. And if him, than why not me?

Every time I close that book for another year, I recommit myself to being better. “This life” Amulek said, “is the time for men to prepare to meet God , , .” (Alma 34:32) I believe that, and Charles Dickens through Jacob Marley, the Ghost of Christmas Present and Ebeneezer himself witnessed the truthfulness of it. Because of the intervention of mercy, he was able to turn his life around, and through the atoning sacrifice of our Saviour, he was given a new life – the chance to right his wrongs and lift his eyes to new opportunities. He escaped the torment of endless remorse that Marley – who turned out to be the truest of friends – was condemned to.

Upon feeling the spirit of redemption (perhaps for the first time in his life), he joyfully proclaimed “I don’t know what to do! I am as light as a feather, I am as happy as an angel, I am as merry as a school boy. I am as giddy as a drunken man. A Merry Christmas to EVERYBODY! A Happy New Year to all the world!”

He changed his future because he change his ‘present’. He effectually changed his legacy. He who was known to be frightful, the one who caused people to cross the street to avoid stepping in his shadow, the one who by his own words, “wished to be left alone”, . . . on Christmas Day, “went to church, and walked about the streets, and watched the people hurrying to and fro, and patted children on the head, and questioned beggars, and looked down into the kitchens of houses, and up to the windows, and found that everything could yield him pleasure. He had never dreamed that any walk — that anything — could give him so much happiness.”

I’d love to hear your thoughts on the quotes I’ve chosen to share. What portions of the story were particularly meaningful to you? Tell me why.

Merry Christmas Friends.

Warmly,

Cindy Suelzle

Maple Pulled Pork Waffles

Whether you’re feeding the family, hosting a backyard dinner party or whipping up something quick for a weekday meal, pulled pork is always a guaranteed pleaser. You can serve it with your favourite BBQ sauce and sides, in sandwiches and tacos, or over nachos, but have you ever served it over top a perfectly crispy waffle? Don’t knock it till you try it. My first introduction to chicken on waffles was a complete surprise. This just takes that favourite dish to a whole new level. How bout adding the flavour of maple syrup? Better yet, add a splash of sriracha sauce at the end for some extra zing.

What if I told you it could BE ON THE TABLE in less than half an hour? I know right! True story. Read on.

*full disclosure: this is not my recipe. I just wanted it written down somewhere so that I could share it. It originated with Chef Todd Leonard 1 (see below).

I am not a vegetarian but I do not eat much meat and could easily imagine a life without it. However, I live with people who DO like to eat meat, and I’m okay with that, though I do NOT like to handle raw meat. Having freeze dried meat checks off a few boxes for me.

Box 1: Food storage is important to me – not just for those BIG emergencies where the sky comes falling down, but for the more frequent emergencies like job interruption, like unexpected expenses, like illness that keeps one from shopping or meal preparation, like – I dunno, maybe something WAAAY out there, like a pandemic that keeps us out of the stores . . . . so many other of the day to day realities of normal life.
There is something to be said for the peace of mind that comes with preparing for those times. Properly sealed freeze dried food has a shelf life of 25 years. Once opened, it generally will last up to a year if protected from the moisture in the air.

Box 2: Saving money is important to me, by NOT cooking more meat than we need at any given time (meaning we either ate too much, or we ate leftovers for too long, or we wasted food by throwing it away, or worse – all three). Now I just prepare exactly what I want.

Box 3: Convenience of putting a NICE meal on the table in less than half an hour. Thrive Life freeze dried meats are all precooked and in some cases, lightly seasoned. You can even eat them straight out of the can!

Box 4: Never having to touch, smell or deal with raw meat. BIG box for me.

I’ll admit – waffles and meat never used to fit together in my mind UNTIL I tried it a few times. Now this is one of our favourites. So put away your slow cooker and get over yourself. You don’t need to thaw, precook or shred the meat. It’s already done.

*Someone recently told me they spooned the pork mixture onto the waffle maker, and poured the waffle mix over top! Wowzers! Definitely trying THAT next time I make this recipe.

MAPLE PULLED PORK WAFFLES

I am using mostly freeze dried ingredients here (FD), but not to worry – you can substitute with equal amounts of garden fresh in every case. And if you have a pork roast in your freezer, but not the freeze dried pulled pork – not to worry. Just slow cook it like you would for any other ‘pulled pork’ recipe (without all the seasoning). What you’re going to end up with is cooked pulled pork – just the long way around. Freeze dried pulled pork is delicious and accessible – the short cut way.
Amounts intended to serve 4 or 5 people

Ingredients
normal stuff in your kitchen:
3 Tablespoons vegetable oil
2 Tablespoons Soy Sauce
2 Tablespoons Brown Sugar
2 Tablespoons Maple Syrup
water
1/4 cup butter

Freeze Dried foods: (FD)
2 cups FD Pulled Pork 2
1 Tablespoon FD garlic OR 2 cloves minced
3/4 cup FD Onion Slices OR 1/2 cup FD Chopped Onions
1 cup FD Red Peppers
1/2 cup FD Green Chili Peppers
1/3 cup FD Green Onions
1 teaspoon Chef’s Choice Seasoning (or your favourite seasoning mix)

* optional: add more FD vegetables as desired. Green Peppers, Asparagus, Green Beans, Peas, Kale, Spinach . . . . etc
Put away your cutting board. These vegetables are already washed and sliced.

Waffles:
2 cups all-purpose flour
1/2 teaspoon salt
1 T baking powder
2 tablespoons white sugar
2 large eggs
1 ½ cups warm milk
1/3 cup vegetable oil

Sift all dry ingredients together, set aside.
Beat eggs and oil into milk.
Pour liquids into dry ingredients and stir to moisten all.

OR
use 2 cups of your favourite Pancake mix or try my mix (recipe in this blog site)
+ 2 eggs (beaten) to whatever liquid your mix calls for
*tip: 2 T Thrive Life Scrambled Egg Mix +3 T water = 1 egg

Directions:
1. refresh PULLED PORK by putting it in a jar or container with a lid. Add 3 cups warm water, fasten lid and roll the jar ensuring all meat is moistened. Set aside to allow to soften 10-15 minutes. A little longer isn’t going to hurt.
It is helpful to gently tumble the jar every few minutes.

2. make Waffles:
Preheat seasoned waffle iron and pour batter onto oiled, HOT griddle. Approximately 1/4 cup in each quadrant. Close waffle iron and watch the time. I leave mine for 4 minutes until they’re toasty brown, but every waffle iron is probably a bit different.
Cook waffles and set aside.

3. Pork mixture:
Using a large skillet, heat oil and lightly toast onions and garlic till aromatic and slightly browned.

4. Add the moistened pork with remaining water. Stirring gently (so as not to break up the delicate meat), add all the vegetables and Chef’s Choice Seasoning, adding extra water (1/4 cup at a time) as needed to keep the mixture wet. Last time I made this in addition to the onions, I used red peppers, green peppers, chili peppers, green beans and spinach.

5. Add brown sugar, soy sauce and maple syrup. Reduce heat and simmer gently another couple of minutes stirring, till all vegetables are moistened. If mixture is too dry, simply add a little more water. Taste test and season with salt and pepper to taste if desired (I never add either as I find the Chef’s Choice is perfect for me).

6. Remove from heat and add butter, allowing it to melt and emulsify.
Give it one final stir.

To serve: spoon a dollop of juicy, shredded, maple infused pork over top your fluffy waffle.

As mentioned above: *Someone recently told me they spooned the pork mixture onto the waffle maker, and poured the waffle mix over top! I’m loving that idea! Definitely trying it next time I make this recipe.

ENJOY.

Warmly,

Cindy Suelzle

Chef Todd Leonard, master behind the kitchen door

  1. Chef Todd Leonard is the department chair of the Utah Valley University’s Culinary Art Institute, one of the top professional cooking programs in America. Winner of the Nations Top Chef in 2018, and the first Chef from Utah to ever win the honour.
    https://kutv.com/features/inside-the-story/inside-the-story-utah-chef-is-national-chef-of-the-year ↩︎
  2. Unlike many freeze dried meats, PULLED PORK is a ‘high fat’ meant, which affects its open shelf life. Once the can is open, use it within a few weeks. Personally, I always write the date I open a can on the lid so I can stay on top of it. In the case of PULLED PORK, I put it in the fridge to buy me an extra week or two. If I know for sure I’m not going to use it right away, I’ll put it in the freezer part of my fridge to buy another week or two. Don’t forget about it – USE it! For this reason, I generally buy the smaller cans so that I can use them more efficiently, and I ALWAYS buy them when they are on sale. ↩︎